Comments on: Need Help With Ex!!! Please I Am Desperate!?

By: sahtlove

sahtlove — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:38:31 +0000

god does a thing called pruning he takes things away to make you focus on the big things, so don’t care if you are no good if she liked you at one point she must really like you knowing she could have someone better trust me that is my life and i just sit it out and pray and ask for help and i might go out with this girl i like (1st time)
The Guy Who Is So Confused

By: Alie .

Alie . — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 19:21:55 +0000

That sad that you would even think God let you down. Have you ever thought that he lets you meet some of the harshest persons so you can appreciate the one that is truly meant for you? Pick up a hobbie and get to know the people that makes a difference in society than her. I find that its the simple things that bring people joy.

By: mariah

mariah — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 18:57:18 +0000

Lol I already dont like her stay away from her seriously see other people and dont let yourself go because of her.

By: Popsfav

Popsfav — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 16:09:48 +0000

No to be mean, but you need to mature as well. You will realize, along with a million other adult things, that it matters not how many pairs of Uggs someone has. Yes, they have great jobs and can likely afford whatever they want and have a financially great life. Excell at college and you will have an even better one if material things are all that are important to you. Just don’t forget REAL love along the way. That brings real happiness as well.

By: Michael C

Michael C — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 09:13:01 +0000

STOP this at once…look at yourself..whats wrong with you? You even talk about God. A God-fearing guy does not compare himself with others materially, and then ask God why He doesn’t make them as successful as the non-believer. So stop that at once!
You are too caught up in comparing yourself with someone you are supposed to LOVE. If you were together and eventually get married you would be a “miserable man”. Life is more than just what a person possesses; its more than material things. How DARE YOU LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF like that because of what a girl has. Your parents taught you the right stuff, you are a smart person. GPA or no GPA anyone who does not klnow how a debit or credit card works is not a bright person by any modern standard (lol)
I tell you something, as an expert with women (no player, just expert…I am a counsellor as well) I would NEVER have a girl like that for my lady unless she loves me…really really loves me to the extent that I see beyond her being a spoiled rich kid who gets avery and anyhing she wants. Run son RUN …RUN RUN…stop killing yourself. And before I go let me say this…..” The purpose of life, is a life of purpose”…Stop being materialist. Furthermore, the measurement of a man’s success is not found in how far he has to go but how far he has come” In other words, your success is about how far you are coming from, not how far you have to go.

By: Marina D

Marina D — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 08:20:28 +0000

With all the turmoil you are in, I would say yes, you should stay away for a while. It’s really hard to remain friends with an ex unless a lor of time has passed.
I wouldn’t necessarily consider her blessed with things from God. She’s spoiled and so are her siblings. It’s going to be very hard on them when they hear “no” in the real world.